Even growing up I was trained save yourself for marriage in church. But what does  really that mean?
Recently I was convicted by the holy spirit to stop having sex and save myself for marriage.
Back in the day I use to date so many guys, I had to be naive to the fact that guys wanted sex. For years I have problems with boundaries, being too friendly and mistreating my boyfriend who tried to love me. Being unfaithful clouded my judgement, even when came time for engagement I couldn't commit.
I grew up in a single parent home, where no one talked to me about sex, dating or relationships. There are so much soul ties when you sleep with a person you carry their spirit to the next relationship.You have to get to the root of the problem.

 Are you in a relationship? Be honest about your intentions with this man, are you ready for commitment.Are you sexually active?
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?1 Corinthians 6:19
A person who has doubts is thinking about two different things at the same time and can't make up his mind about anything.

I am woman who loves myself,  I will  not surrender to lust and temptation
God is our provider, he loves us.  I am a virtuous woman who respects her self.
If I don't set standards in my life, I will fall for anything.

This constant battle has pledged me since I lost my virginity,being naive, and guys taking advantage of me.
Now, I flipped the game an became a player dating two guys at time, tossed too and fro, being sexually active with two guys  and this became dangerous. But who am I? Is this my legacy I have to be made whole, then I will be faithful to mate through my thought process,being covered by godly counsel, being honest to my mate and to God who loves me. So repent and sin  no more, forgive myself.
Ashley Williams